Some simple ways to show kids you care...
Acknowledge them.
Look in their eyes when you talk to them.
Listen to them.
Play with them.
Read aloud together.
Set boundaries that keep them safe.
Listen to their stories.
Notice when they’re acting differently.
Ask for their opinion.
Tell them about yourself.
Let them act their age.
Praise more; criticize less.
Let them make mistakes.
Respect them.
Give them good choices.
Accept them as they are.
Tolerate their interruptions.
Present options when they seek your counsel.
Stay with them when they’re afraid.
Suggest better behaviors when they act out.
Feed them when they’re hungry.
Notice when they’re absent.
Discuss their dreams and nightmares.
Kneel, squat, or sit so you’re at their eye level.
Answer their questions.
Learn what they have to teach.
Show up at their concerts, games, and events.
Display their artwork in your home.
Thank them.
Create a safe, open environment.
Encourage them to think big.
Expect their best; don’t expect perfection.
Empower them to help and be themselves.
Love them, no matter what.
Apologize when you’ve done something wrong.
Catch them doing something right.
Give them your undivided attention.
Tell them how much you like being with them.
Believe in them.
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